Shoes and an announcement!

First off I wanna say sorry once again about the lack of posts, but there's a few reasons.  One I was on vacation, two I'm attempting to get abs through an extensive workout (it's kinda working :) ), and three this summer is now entitled the summer I wrote a book.  Which means most of my writing time will more than likely be spent writing my book, but I will try my hardest to update this blog at least once a month, so I can get to all your awesome requests, because I want to do them all.  But this month's request comes from Kourtney.  When I sent out my text a few months ago getting ideas for the blog, she said shoes!!! High heels to be exact!  And I'm one who never turns down a challenge, so here's my blog on shoes!

Now before you make me hand you a man card, not that I have many left, here me out here.  This blog will be about shoes and how it relates to life, and putting yourself in other peoples shoes.  Now I'm not saying go try some heels on, but I must admit I looked pretty fab in a pair of heels a few years ago for Halloween, ok here's my man card now :P!  I'm saying we as people are always quick to judge people, without first trying to put ourselves in other's shoes.  I'm not saying cater to everyone in the world and feel pity for everyone in it, instead I'm saying try to put yourself in their situation before you say anything or make a judgement.  You might say that might be impossible to fit yourself into other peoples shoes, but that is so far from the truth it's crazy.  

    Now just to get this out of the way, I'm not picking on anybody right now, I'm just naming scenarios where people are quick to judge, and if they took time to actually look at that person they might realize they have a similar issue.  Teenage pregnancy, we all have been teenagers and or still are.  So I will never understand how other teenagers and adults can ridicule teens who get pregnant.  Being a teenage is hard enough, and I can only imagine how it is while bringing a life into the world that was made out of love.  Most people just see the negative side of teenage pregnancy, and never realize that the mother is carrying another symbol of love into the world.  The only thing they ever see is the Mom's future being doomed, and a child growing up having a rough time.  Have you ever thought if we took half the time bitching about other people, and putting that time instead into helping how better off the world would be.  If every person who lent an ear, a helping hand, kind words, or even just a hug to a pregnant teen hell a pregnant person in general, that warmth translates in so many ways.  For one thing the Mother will feel less stressed and more happy knowing they have one more friend in the world, instead of another person who just does one thing, nothing but judge, and usually from a far, because they are usually cowards and can never say the things they say to you to your face.  And a happy mommy equals a happy baby,  and if you have both you might have a chance helping improve a young woman's life.  

     That is just one example, and to be honest my brain is fried from trying to write a book at the same time.  So the moral is if you look at every person you are about to judge I will bet you will see a part of you in there.  You may not be a pregnant teen, but you were once a teenager.  You may not be overweight, but everyone knows how hurtful words can be, and if we took the time we waste beating down others and instead put it towards a good use, the world would be a better place.