All right first thing first, I'm about to break a rule that needs to be broken. I promised myself I wouldn't write when I was angry, but I believe what I'm about to say would only be able to come out if I give in my deep rooted anger right now that I have been suppressing for so long. So just a fair warning if you want a happy blog post I would skip this, but if you want to see how I truly see the world now please continue reading on. I think that picture sums up adulthood perfectly, Wasn't it beautiful when you believed in everything!
Allright, I gave you your chance to back out, and you didn't so you're about to hear my view on equality in life. When we are all born we are essentially created equal for the most part, two arms, two legs, brain, organs, etc...but what really sets us apart in the long run from either succeeding or failing in life is what we do with the life we were given, but also what the people before us have also done! We are the results of two people getting together and joining to make one person, and you as a person have two choices in life to either become the person that they want you to be, or be the person you want to be. I have always prided myself in being the person I want to be, because if you're not being you then who are you being. Which brings me to equality in life, workplace, sports, love, etc...Here's the hardcore truth Equality doesn't and will never exist! In life the guy with the more money because of who his parents are will more than likely get the girl, the person who knows people or secrets will always go further in any workplace, in sports the team with the best players always win because they have the most money to buy the best players, and love well my dad taught me a very important rule before I got married, "She's always right, and if she's wrong DO NOT TELL HER!".
In theory we are the results of our own actions, but we are also who are because of the result of the actions that come from the actions. I've always viewed my life as going to a club, a club I was never and will never be let into. I could be standing outside in that line for forty days straight in the sun, rain, snow, etc...but I would never be let in because of the person of who I am. I am not a kissass, I try my best not to play favorites, I attempt to treat everyone equally at first, I'm not a douche (my exgf says otherwise), and I always put others ahead of myself. I would rather die than become the exact opposite of who I am. but the sad reality people who are nice, play fair, treat everyone equal get nothing in life. Nice guys/gals finish last because they are too busy helping others, than themselves. If I was in a race and I was sprinted by a guy passed out on the trail I would run my hardest to get him a glass of water and run right back and give it to him. Would I lose the race, yes, but as long as you stay true to yourself, in theory winning or losing shouldn't matter. But sadly we don't live in theory, we live in reality where people backstab people who help them, say hurtful words because they can, beat other people verbally and physically, and hurt themselves or others around them. And it seems to me people who are the exact opposite of caring, loving, kind hearted are, and always will be the winners of life.
This entire world is based and run on favoritism its the sad truth. Our president is voted in on a popular vote, we all have our favorite movies, cars, color, shoes etc. So how can we ask the world to run on equality when it has never been run on it. Shouldn't us as human's all have the basic right to marry who we want, work where we want, get paid equal shares for the same amount of work, regardless of who we know. But we don't live in that world, once again we live in reality, where people of the same gender can't marry, people get hired and promoted due to the fact of who they know, and the douches and kissass's will always get paid more for the equal or less amount of work. So it seems in the real world the only place equality exists is in math where 2 will always equal 2, but 2 people will never equal the same, and I sadly never see that ending, ever! Because that is the way the world has and always be run, with the douches and Aholes running it, while the good guys/gals are busy helping everyone else, and not themselves.
Now please I beg of you from the bottom of my heart to go out in this world and please prove me wrong, because I honestly believe if enough of us stand up in this world, we might have a chance to change it! It more than likely will be a small chance, but it's still a chance.
As always keep love, and peace in your heart through the day!
